180 Series 2 - Growing in Love

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Tell the Truth

Ephesians 4:15

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Instead, speaking the truth in love, we will grow to become in every respect the mature body of him who is the head, that is, Christ.

Ephesians 4:15

Colossians 3:9

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Do not lie to each other, since you have taken off your old self with its practices

Colossians 3:9

Avoid Gossip

Proverbs 17:9

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Whoever would foster love covers over an offense, but whoever repeats the matter separates close friends.

Proverbs 17:9

Proverbs 11:13

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A gossip betrays a confidence, but a trustworthy person keeps a secret.

Proverbs 11:13

Speak Graciously

Colossians 4:4-6

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Pray that I may proclaim it clearly, as I should. Be wise in the way you act toward outsiders; make the most of every opportunity. Let your conversation be always full of grace, seasoned with salt, so that you may know how to answer everyone.

Colossians 4:4-6

Proverbs 15:1

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A gentle answer turns away wrath, but a harsh word stirs up anger.

Proverbs 15:1

Admit Sin

James 5:16

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Therefore confess your sins to each other and pray for each other so that you may be healed. The prayer of a righteous person is powerful and effective.

James 5:16

Matthew 5:23-24

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“Therefore, if you are offering your gift at the altar and there remember that your brother or sister has something against you, leave your gift there in front of the altar. First go and be reconciled to them; then come and offer your gift.

Matthew 5:23-24

Listen

James 1:19

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My dear brothers and sisters, take note of this: Everyone should be quick to listen, slow to speak and slow to become angry,

James 1:19

Proverbs 18:13

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To answer before listening— that is folly and shame.

Proverbs 18:13

Accept Reproof

Proverbs 9:8-9

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Do not rebuke mockers or they will hate you; rebuke the wise and they will love you. Instruct the wise and they will be wiser still; teach the righteous and they will add to their learning.

Proverbs 9:8-9

Matthew 18:15

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“If your brother or sister sins, go and point out their fault, just between the two of you. If they listen to you, you have won them over.

Matthew 18:15

Forgive Others

Ephesians 4:32

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Be kind and compassionate to one another, forgiving each other, just as in Christ God forgave you.

Ephesians 4:32

Colossians 3:13

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Bear with each other and forgive one another if any of you has a grievance against someone. Forgive as the Lord forgave you.

Colossians 3:13

Be Patient

Ephesians 4:2

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Be completely humble and gentle; be patient, bearing with one another in love.

Ephesians 4:2

2 Timothy 2:24-25

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And the Lord’s servant must not be quarrelsome but must be kind to everyone, able to teach, not resentful. Opponents must be gently instructed, in the hope that God will grant them repentance leading them to a knowledge of the truth,

2 Timothy 2:24-25

Control Anger

Ephesians 4:26

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“In your anger do not sin”: Do not let the sun go down while you are still angry,

Ephesians 4:26

Colossians 3:8

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But now you must also rid yourselves of all such things as these: anger, rage, malice, slander, and filthy language from your lips.

Colossians 3:8

Overcome Bitterness

Hebrews 12:15

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See to it that no one falls short of the grace of God and that no bitter root grows up to cause trouble and defile many.

Hebrews 12:15

Ephesians 4:31

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Get rid of all bitterness, rage and anger, brawling and slander, along with every form of malice.

Ephesians 4:31

Endure Injustice

1 Peter 2:20-21

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But how is it to your credit if you receive a beating for doing wrong and endure it? But if you suffer for doing good and you endure it, this is commendable before God. To this you were called, because Christ suffered for you, leaving you an example, that you should follow in his steps.

1 Peter 2:20-21

Romans 12:19

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Do not take revenge, my dear friends, but leave room for God’s wrath, for it is written: “It is mine to avenge; I will repay,” says the Lord.

Romans 12:19

Avoid Jealousy

Proverbs 27:4

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Anger is cruel and fury overwhelming, but who can stand before jealousy?

Proverbs 27:4

James 3:16

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For where you have envy and selfish ambition, there you find disorder and every evil practice.

James 3:16

Live in Harmony

Romans 15:5-6

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May the God who gives endurance and encouragement give you the same attitude of mind toward each other that Christ Jesus had, so that with one mind and one voice you may glorify the God and Father of our Lord Jesus Christ.

Romans 15:5-6

1 Corinthians 1:10

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I appeal to you, brothers and sisters, in the name of our Lord Jesus Christ, that all of you agree with one another in what you say and that there be no divisions among you, but that you be perfectly united in mind and thought.

1 Corinthians 1:10

Serve Others

Matthew 20:26-27

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Not so with you. Instead, whoever wants to become great among you must be your servant, and whoever wants to be first must be your slave—

Matthew 20:26-27

Galatians 5:13

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You, my brothers and sisters, were called to be free. But do not use your freedom to indulge the flesh; rather, serve one another humbly in love.

Galatians 5:13

Put Others First

Romans 15:2

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Each of us should please our neighbors for their good, to build them up.

Romans 15:2

Philippians 2:3-4

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Do nothing out of selfish ambition or vain conceit. Rather, in humility value others above yourselves, not looking to your own interests but each of you to the interests of the others.

Philippians 2:3-4

Encourage One Another

1 Thessalonians 5:11

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Therefore encourage one another and build each other up, just as in fact you are doing.

1 Thessalonians 5:11

Ecclesiastes 4:9-10

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Two are better than one, because they have a good return for their labor: If either of them falls down, one can help the other up. But pity anyone who falls and has no one to help them up.

Ecclesiastes 4:9-10

Be Compassionate

Matthew 9:36

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When he saw the crowds, he had compassion on them, because they were harassed and helpless, like sheep without a shepherd.

Matthew 9:36

Romans 12:15

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Rejoice with those who rejoice; mourn with those who mourn.

Romans 12:15

Be Gentle

James 3:17

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But the wisdom that comes from heaven is first of all pure; then peace-loving, considerate, submissive, full of mercy and good fruit, impartial and sincere.

James 3:17

Galatians 6:1

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Brothers and sisters, if someone is caught in a sin, you who live by the Spirit should restore that person gently. But watch yourselves, or you also may be tempted.

Galatians 6:1